I, personally, am not spending more than double the price of the adapter just to have it look the same.

The OP got an RV version of the adapter instead of the EV version.

Buy the right thing and voila: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07C9HC1ZW/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1