I listened to/read Cribsheet and thought it was great. Not aimed at fathers specifically, but it does a good job of breaking down the available data on a lot of decisions you and your partner will have to make. Of course I’m still a preDaddit as well (for another few days) so take my recommendation with a grain of salt :-)

https://www.amazon.com/Cribsheet-Data-Driven-Relaxed-Parenting-Preschool-ebook/dp/B07FZPTDJ3