Here's another, complete assembly
These are a couple options I found on Amazon with a quick search.
I'm at work now but can post pics when I get home. Here is what I bought:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0894GW1R9?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details
Last night I desoldered the wires from the board and used the old connector plug and was able to get the wires in there. Still no luck. If I go and try to print, it will just start the print immediately.