Hey! Was looking through cases for myself and came across this one that may be perfect for your needs. It's clear with the kickstand, so you could get a dband skin for the phone itself, as opposed to trying to make the case skin fit with a kickstand case.
https://www.amazon.com/ESR-Compatible-Google-Pixel-4a/dp/B086MGG5WV?ref_=ast_sto_dp
I ordered both the Ghostek and the ESR because i like having a kickstand. I'm also going to be looking strongly at the Rhinoshields when they release their lineup for the 4a. I want something clear so I can slap a Dbrand skin on it. Will report back on how the cases are when I get the phone.
Edit: I also want to note for you that I have the Spigen tough Armor for the 2xl. This is a 2 piece construction case, hard plastic with kickstand over soft TPU. The hard plastic portion will show nicks and dings VERY easily. Within a month I have marks all over it. The kickstand works in horizontal mode, but not vertical. Additionally, the volume buttons are basically flush with each other and the case. It's very difficult to simply put your hand there without looking and know whether you are on the volume up key or the volume down key. Super annoying. All in all, I'm fairly disappointed in this case.