Looks good to me. Here is the one I got https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0007V9XAU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_glt_fabc_GDN6DXK6DD17XQA4C53H

So much this. I got a Curt hitch off Amazon for around $120. My daughter and I got it installed in the driveway in less than 30 minutes. My impact wrench made the job very easy. Tightened all 6 up with my breaker bar. Checked them a month later with the breaker bar and they were all still tight. Haven't done the lights yet as I needed it for a recovery point while offroading. But my research says the same thing. Relay goes in the passenger side kick panel and the 4pin adapter. Maybe some zip ties to clean it up and you are done. Plenty of you tube vids.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0007V9XAU?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title