Whatever stove you get you should get this camp oven to use on top of it. Muffin mix and water turn into gloriously moist treats. Baked pasta. It's only $20-$30 and worth every penny. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0009PURJA/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1491076772&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=coleman+camp+oven&dpPl=1&dpID=41qOyhYDuQL&ref=plSrch

I live in a camper full time going on a month now and I have not found a solution yet, but have been looking. I'm considering a thermal cooker, which apparently works as an oven just by boiling water. There is also something like this that goes right on top of a camp stove: http://www.amazon.com/Coleman-5010D700T-Camp-Oven/dp/B0009PURJA

You probably won't find much of a counter-argument because she's right, it won't be the same. But if you want to live in a camper than you have to adapt and that's pretty much all their is to it.

I would love to be able to grind my wheat and bake my bread on the road!

There's always a camp oven that you just put on your camp stove

https://www.amazon.com/Coleman-2000016462-Camp-Oven/dp/B0009PURJA/