https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09YTVPQF6/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1 I love this tripod- it can get quite tall, and it's held up for almost 6 months now :D
$8 adapter for your phone on that page. You can also just get this.
Personally, if you post a video from ground level, I'm not going to give you any advice.
Also, while we are at it, please look up "continental grip" and make sure you are using it before even trying to take a video and posting here. That's just low hanging fruit that you can take care of without help from this sub.
Also look up "waiter's tray error". Example.
You can get a lot more from this sub just by doing these three things before posting here.
Just my 5 cents.