I'll just throw out this link for anyone in the same boat, not wanting to wait: Amazon. It comes with a free Dex and Dual Charger. It's sold by Samsung. I got mine next day and cancelled my Samsung.com order.

BH listed Note9 "Expected availability: 1-3 Business Days" ... does that mean they will have it on Monday or just another big lie again.

https://i.imgur.com/tL9Jnj0.png

Also, Amazon increased the price of Note9 + Dex + charger combo