I use this:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08BYG3NZM/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I love all the pockets. This holds all my gear and accessories except sheets, although it can, depending on the size. I'm sure there are others styled to be more gender neutral.