This is a good cook cup, although I think snowpeak's top tier.

This is what I have if I don't use an alcohol stove [which rule, btw].

If you want to lose a bunch of gear weight to get further from the car, let me know - I can show you a bunch of my gear that I invested into (including a 1lb 4 oz sleeping bag, 2.5lb 2-person tent [fits me and my girlfriend], and the hornet 46 which is ~1.5lbs).

Most of the stuff I look for is just preferences, going for comfort and lightweight.