I've got a pair of TOZO Crystal buds, and I love them. :)
They have good sound, Qi wireless charging, and they use an app with custom EQ settings and the ability to update the firmware.
https://www.amazon.com/TOZO-Bluetooth-Waterproof-Headphones-Transparent/dp/B0BCFQY7ZY/
They don't have ANC, but I got myself a set of foam ear tips that give good sound isolation:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071Z6J3XL?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07VBFF9FQ This style works well (large buttons you can find with gloves on)
https://www.amazon.com/Earphone-Premium-Replacement-Blocking-Headphones/dp/B071Z6J3XL/ memory foam tips turn regular earbuds into earplugs
https://www.amazon.com/Motanar-Isolate-Silicone-Connector-Earphone/dp/B07JYRB3VM flanged earbud tips work OK'ish, but you gotta clean them regularly
For the best fit, I would recommend foam tips. I really like these: