My go to dimmer for full compatibility is the Lutron Caseta ELV+. Use the Pico remote for any 3-way or 4-way switch location. Use the wall bracket to mount the Pico like a wall switch.

ELV+ Dimmer https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01M22SK1W

Pico Remote https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KLAXFQ0

Wallplate Bracket https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JZRAFEA