Haha it's so bad and also hilarious. Here is the one I got bc I used to be a side sleeper but I honestly use it as a bolster around my hips or on my low back while sitting. It's pretty flat now since I use it constantly but works really well to start!

I've been using the Boppy side sleeper pillow since mid-September and love it. I add a firm pillow between my knees and ankles which keeps them comfortably separated, and have a softer pillow under my hips.

It's not perfect, but since I added the pillow under the hips, I've been sleeping significantly better AND I get to keep my normal pillow which I love dearly.