How much are you looking to spend? Even the less expensive electronic drum sets (Alesis, Simmons) are a few hundred bucks. I don't know if they're any good or not. Roland is the gold standard but they're like $2k. If you don't care whether it's actually a drum set form factor, you can get relatively inexpensive pads like this Donner, but they don't really feel like playing drums: https://www.amazon.com/Donner-Electronic-Christmas-Instrument-DED-20/dp/B0B8S6MDD4/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=3EQIZ29YE3K2V&keywords=drum+pad+electronic&qid=1671307181&sprefix=Drum+pad+%2Caps%2C102&sr=8-3&ufe=app_do%3Aamzn1.fos.006c50ae-5d4c-4777-9bc0-4513d670b6bc
My little girl is getting a practice pad like this for the holidays: https://www.amazon.com/RealFeel-Evans-Practice-Pad-Inch/dp/B000FT9ZIE/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?crid=A6S2C4R5PCNP&keywords=drum+practice+pad&qid=1671307277&sprefix=drum+p%2Caps%2C156&sr=8-4
Generally, I think drummers should start out on snare, and that's usually how the pedagogy goes in my experience. This is a way to have the feel without a ton of noise (and a ton of expense). I'm pairing it with sticks and an elementary drum method book.