You’re absolutely not in the wrong! But if you wanna try decreasing the allergen on your cat you can try this cat dander reducing kibble: Purina Pro Plan Allergen Reducing, High Protein https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0848R7D13/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_ebW3osnkFa6G8 or this Cat dander neutralizing serum you can rub into your cat ( no rinsing required! ): Allerpet Cat Dander Remover w/Free Applicator Mitt - Effective Cat Allergy Relief - Anti Allergen Solution Made in USA - (12oz) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MA2AYYN/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_hFDCRNMQYPNfP

good luck!