I agree with most of your points, and I do love TeamGroup RAM.

However, their Xtreem line has been super solid for me - that heatsink is meaty and impressive. The CL14 version is $169 vs the $199 you posted above.

https://www.amazon.com/TEAMGROUP-T-Force-3600MHz-PC4-28800-Channel/dp/B08T24YD3G/ref=sr_1_19?c=ts&keywords=Computer%2BMemory&qid=1687533136&refinements=p_89%3ATEAMGROUP&rnid=2528832011&s=pc&sr=1-19&ts_id=172500&ufe=app_do%3Aamzn1.fos.18ed3cb5-28d5-4975-8bc7-93deae8f9840&th=1