This is the one i bought

Aroma Season Heated Eye Mask, For Stye Blepharitis Moist Treatment with Flaxseed, Warm Therapy to Unclog glands, Relieve Dry Eye Syndrome, Chalazion, Stye, MGD and Blepharitis (Blue) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07LBL172C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_0DBSK8VBTR2TFENY0N0D

This is the warm compress I use: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07LBL172C/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I'm on day 3 of doing them 3-4 times a day for 20-30 minutes. I do it right when I wake up and before I go to sleep, and then 1-2 other times throughout the day.

I don't apply any additional pressure but it does sit firmly on my eyes (I could loosen it more if needed)

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I got the Aroma Season one from Amazon, it's a little smaller so it really concentrates the heat on your eyelids. It was a little pricey cos I had it shipped overseas, but I've been using it daily and it's still held up well and I've had it for almost a year already! Here's the link.

I never had mites but my doctor said to use tea tree eye wash if it would happen. Then you would put this on and leave it on when you go to sleep:https://www.amazon.com/OCuSOFT-Milliters-Associated-Blepharitis-Dysfunction/dp/B00XYIQ2PCThat will help clear inflammation and blepharitis. It is suppose to help with mites too but I didn't use it for that so I can only repeat what the doc said. This stuff did not burn at all except for initial use because my eyes were so chapped. The stuff you have may feel harsh if your skin is already irritated and its not adding moisture. It is just cleaning it.

You want to get some of these:https://www.amazon.com/ChefBee-Disposable-Applicators-Extensions-Container/dp/B08JV1F4HM/ref=sr_1_5?keywords=disposable%2Bmascara%2Bwands&qid=1683256011&sr=8-5&th=1Dip them in alcohol to sanitize. Then you can use them to help remove debris and dead skin from your lash line. Use a magnifying mirror so you can see what you are doing. Tutorials on youtube on how to clean lashes deeply.

Try an electric usb mask. It actually stays hot better than the bruder. Always clean your mask or mask guard after every use. Read reviews as all masks are different. I like this one:https://www.amazon.com/Aroma-Season-Flaxseed-Syndrome-Blepharitis/dp/B07LBL172C/ref=sr_1_8?crid=GFAN67HFUOK9&keywords=dry+eye+mask&qid=1683256207&sprefix=dry+eye+mask%2Caps%2C87&sr=8-8

When you do the mask: Put eye drops in your eye, close eye for 20 seconds. Apply high heat for 10 minutes every day. Gentle downward massage after. Cleanse eyes. Reapply eyedrops.

Just some drops: I love these and they are non irritating as the preservatives in some eyedrops bother me. Plus they are oil heavy so perfect for MGDhttps://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B074ZHK96H/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&th=1

For your eyes before sleep:https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000052XC0/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&th=1

I also use it on my eyelids before bed sometimes if my skin feels dry.

https://www.amazon.com/Aroma-Season-Flaxseed-Syndrome-Blepharitis/dp/B07LBL172C/ref=asc_df_B07LBL172C/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312065554004&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=11977191819564969059&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9008602&hvtargid=pla-692569389084&psc=1 This is a heated mask I use. It has 3 temp settings and 3 levels of time. It works well for me when 8 first got it I thought it was too tight on my eyes but after learning about massaging the glands this mask proved its worth. It warms the top and bottom lids evenly for me and I have Astigmatism so football shaped eyeball