You may want to try this book https://www.amazon.com/Your-Babys-Bottle-feeding-Aversion-Solutions-ebook/dp/B076PWRHH2 its DOR for bottle feeding.
I would recommend reading Your Baby’s Bottle-Feeding Aversion by Rowena Bennett to see if it sounds like what’s going on (and to learn what to do about it). What you’re describing sounds like a pretty classic presentation of a bottle-feeding aversion.