The brand I-N-C has a few men’s button downs with black flocked velvet, and it looks like they ship through Amazon. Excuse the shitty long links below, I’m on mobile.
Geometric pattern:
Different geometric pattern:
Similar pattern to reference, but it’s navy:
Tbh it’s probably worth poking around Amazon some more to see what you can scrounge up. I’m not even having any luck finding what you’re looking for on Poshmark/Depop/EBay, so Amazon is probably your best bet.
Edit: looks like Punk Rave has a couple of men’s button downs as well? The Nocturn shirt might be close to what you’re looking for. And they also ship through Amazon.