You should get an oil, wax, shampoo and a comb. I love the smell of this oil has a vanillay spicey smell that I love. This is a decent oil that doesn't smell like anything. If you wanna try a balm Amish Beard Balm is the one I use.
This and This are the two combs I have and use. Depending on what your mustache is might not need the smaller one. Scissors are nice to get rid of the crazy hairs.
Wax for me was the hardest to find a good one that didn't leave white stuff. Amish has one that I like and then I like This.
Any questions just ask!
Is conditioner the same thing as softener? I always see people say that you can use it everyday unlike shampoo but maybe i am mixing 2 different things up.
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This for example is an Honest Amish leave-in conditioner. Correct me if I'm wrong but it acts as both a butter for day/night and as a softener so can i get it instead 2 seperate products?
Wash I'm using rn, tho Lush makes one called Kalamazoo and its awesome.