Well, the hardcore racing sims don't have those gamey features (which is why I don't like them lol). Games like iRacing and Assetto Corsa Competizione.

Check out /r/simracing for more info, but my not-breaking-the-bank recommendation would be:

• GT Omega Racing Wheel Stand + chair (I use my ikea poang)
• Thrustmaster T300 RS (I paid $400) + squash ball mod

How will you be transporting it? If you have a pretty big car, one of these will do the trick. The wheel stand pro is ABSOLUTELY TERRIBLE lol, it'll feel like you're gonna fold it in half.