Please don't spend your money on that. Tossing it out will be a pain. The filters are worthless pieces of plastic rubbish, the "lenses" (the macro label makes me giggle) have about the optical quality of a mason jar, the SD card reader looks dodgy, the flash is bound to be worthless (and you likely won't ever use one), the tripod is a joke, and the bag is not very good.

If you were happy with the D3200, then the D3400 is probably good enough for you. No need to spend more money on the D3500. All you need is a cheap SD card (the one is the bundle is good enough), this bundle (please don't get the red colour), and a simple lens cleaning kit off Amazon. Everything else, like flashes, tripods, and filters, you can pick up later if you decide you need it, and get some proper ones.

Of course, if you're buying the camera to replace the wife as well, I would recommend the D7200.