i started with using adapters, specifically this one
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07BHJ7NDK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
But this made the battery to esc connection pretty heavy. Plus, the deans connector started to feel like it was getting lose. So bought a soldering iron from amazon for $16
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01712N5C4/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o09_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
and used these replacement xt60 connectors
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07PB399PL/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Must say, i like the xt60 connector much better than the Deans. So much more secure and easier to unplug.