1) It's this Mellow bed frame: https://www.amazon.com/Mellow-Queen-Frame-Bed-Foundation/dp/B07MGK8SWF and the mattress itself is a 10" Cool Sense from Big Lots ($360 after tax).
Both rugs are 5 x 7
Holy crap yes - money was flying out of my pockets. I could've let things go for longer and gradually added things, but I already bought a house 7 years ago (i use it for rental income now) and it didn't feel right as a man in his 30's sitting on a lawn chair and standing while eating lmao