Alright I'll give the super soft/light touch next time. I go with the grain. The rest of the face doesn't seem to have this problem but like 10% as often I do knick myself somewhere along the neck.
I'm looking at getting a single blade razor, too. Would you recommend something like this or something like my current 3 blade gillette but just single bladed?
I'm also intruiged by [this],(https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01D328BG6/ref=ox_sc_sfl_title_9?ie=UTF8&psc=1&smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER) which may be a good fit for me, since I generally only shave a couple times a week, sometimes less. Though I get the impression it wouldn't shave closely enough above the lip to be rid of the patchy perve stash.