http://www.amazon.com/American-Pliable-Molding-Styling-Creams/dp/B0008IV7BU

http://www.amazon.com/Bed-Head-Manipulator-TIGI/dp/B000VTX9BC

These are the products I've like the most. They hold well and give more of a matte finish. If you're going for that "wet" look, try a pomade or maybe even a hair gel.